Why Do we Sabotage Love? A Thematic Analysis of Lived Experiences of Relationship Breakdown and Maintenance. Issue 2 (3rd April 2021)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Peel, Raquel; Caltabiano, Nerina
• Is Part Of: Journal of couple & relationship therapy. Volume 20:Issue 2(2021)
• Page Start: 99
• Page End: 131
• Publication Date: 2021-04-03
• Subjects: Relationship self-sabotage -- relationship breakdown -- relationship maintenance -- thematic analysis -- lived experiences; Marital psychotherapy -- Periodicals; Couples therapy -- Periodicals; 616.891562
• DOI: 10.1080/15332691.2020.1795039
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 1533-2691

Abstract

Abstract: Although many individuals are searching for love, failure can often be the expected outcome. A previous study investigated self-sabotage in romantic relationships and explored how psychologists in practice understand this phenomenon. A repertoire of self-sabotaging behaviors was identified by practitioners, with possible reasons as to why this occurs. The present study was the first to empirically explore self-sabotage in romantic relationships by gathering qualitative evidence from a diverse sample of 696 individuals. Participants' lived experiences detailed motivations and strategies to self-sabotage romantic engagements. However, participants' experiences have also helped inform essential steps toward breaking the cycle of self-sabotage.