'I don't mind watching him cum': Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality. (February 2018)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Scoats, Ryan; Joseph, Lauren J; Anderson, Eric
• Is Part Of: Sexualities. Volume 21:Number 1/2(2018)
• Page Start: 30
• Page End: 48
• Publication Date: 2018-02
• Subjects: Group sex -- homohysteria -- masculinity -- mostly straight -- threesome; Sex -- Periodicals; Sex customs -- Periodicals; Sex (Psychology) -- Periodicals; 306.705
• DOI: 10.1177/1363460716678562
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 1363-4607

Abstract

In this qualitative research, conducted on 30 gay-friendly, heterosexual, undergraduate men, we examine actual and hypothetical experiences of sexual threesomes, both with two women and one man (FFM), and two men and one woman (MMF). We show a cultural willingness for heterosexual men to engage in not only FFM threesomes, but also MMF threesomes. A year and a half into their university experience, seven of our participants had had at least one FFM threesome, and five of our participants had had at least one MMF threesome. We argue that this threesome experience is a component of cultural progression toward a more liberal, recreational culture of sexuality that encourages play and experimentation instead of a procreative model of sexuality. Thus, this research contributes to the growing body of literature showing that the cultural boundaries of heterosexuality are rapidly expanding for males, permitting more same-sex sexual contact without triggering the one-time-rule of homosexuality.