"God Doesn't Make Mistakes": Memorable Messages, Adjustment, and Grief following Family Death. Issue 4 (21st March 2022)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Droser, Veronica A.; Seurer, Leah
• Is Part Of: Health communication. Volume 37:Issue 4(2022)
• Page Start: 498
• Page End: 507
• Publication Date: 2022-03-21
• Subjects: Communication in medicine -- Periodicals; Health in mass media -- Periodicals; 362.1014
• DOI: 10.1080/10410236.2020.1853328
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 1041-0236

Abstract

ABSTRACT: Communicating in the wake of family death is complicated. Family members can vary in their expectations for support, their understandings of appropriate topics, and their approaches to coping. Using data collected from 172 individuals who experienced a family death in the last five years, this study explored family communication about loss with an eye toward identifying connections between specific communicative moments and reports of grief and adjustment. Framed within the theory of memorable messages (ToMM), five distinct memorable message types were identified and findings revealed that the type of message a bereaved individual received had direct implications for their reported amount of grief and adjustment. Messages centered on justifying or explaining the death were linked to greater grief, as compared to those that offered advice, shared a memory, or provided a sense of availability. Moderation analyses revealed that attendance to religious service impacted the relationship between message type and reports of grief and adjustment, particularly for rationale-based messages, which were more positively received by participants who attended religious service regularly. This piece supports the ToMM and extends knowledge of family communication about death, ultimately providing solace to those struggling to find the appropriate words to say to a grieving loved one.