Are intense negative emotions a risk for complex divorces? An examination of the role of emotions in divorced parents and co-parenting concerns. (February 2021)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Koppejan-Luitze, Heleen S.; van der Wal, Reine C.; Kluwer, Esther S.; Visser, Margreet M.; Finkenauer, Catrin
• Is Part Of: Journal of social and personal relationships. Volume 38:Number 2(2021)
• Page Start: 765
• Page End: 782
• Publication Date: 2021-02
• Subjects: Complex divorces -- co-parenting concerns -- divorce -- emotions -- high-conflict divorces; Interpersonal relations -- Periodicals; Social interaction -- Periodicals; 302.05
• DOI: 10.1177/0265407520972189
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0265-4075

Abstract

In this study, we examined whether regular divorces can be distinguished from complex divorces by measuring the intensity of negative emotions that divorced parents report when thinking about their ex-partner. We recruited two groups of parents: n = 136 in a regular divorce, and n = 191 in a complex divorce. Based on the existing literature, we predicted that parents in complex divorces experience more intense negative emotions than parents in regular divorces; especially emotions that motivate emotional distancing (contempt, disgust, anger, hatred, and rage) and emotions that impair self-regulation (fear, shame, guilt, and sadness). We also predicted that these emotions would hamper co-parenting, particularly in complex divorces. The results provided support for our predictions, except for fear and sadness. We found that parents in a complex divorce reported more co-parenting concerns than parents in a regular divorce. In contrast to our expectations, the relation between negative emotions and coparenting concerns was stronger among parents in a regular divorce than in a complex divorce. These findings underline the importance of emotions in the divorce trajectory and suggest that especially the intensity of emotional distancing emotions may serve as a screening tool to identify parents at risk for a complex divorce.