Surrogacy as a Family Project: How Surrogates Articulate Familial Identity and Belonging. (June 2021)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Teman, Elly; Berend, Zsuzsa
• Is Part Of: Journal of family issues. Volume 42:Number 6(2021)
• Page Start: 1143
• Page End: 1165
• Publication Date: 2021-06
• Subjects: Surrogacy -- surrogate mothers -- familial belonging -- family identity -- children of surrogates; Families -- United States -- Periodicals; Family -- Periodicals; 306.8505
• DOI: 10.1177/0192513X20944527
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0192-513X

Abstract

This paper explores how surrogates negotiate the meaning of familial belonging and family identity when they discuss surrogacy with their husband, children, and other relatives. We suggest that surrogacy necessitates reflexive explication of what a family is and how this family is implicated in surrogacy. Our comparative study analyzes ethnographic data on Israeli and US surrogates to illuminate key similarities in surrogates' strategies vis-a-vis their husband and children, pointing to the importance of daily family practices in how people understand family belonging. First, we map out the ways surrogates engage their husbands in order to gain their support and protect their nuclear family unit before entering the process. Next, we look at how surrogates explain surrogacy to their children in efforts to clarify siblingship and the boundaries between the two families, and to make surrogacy into an educational family project. We analyze the metaphors and rituals in surrogates' family-bounding practices.