"How Many Silences Are There?" Men's Experience of Victimization in Intimate Partner Relationships. Issue 23 (December 2020)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Brooks, Carolyn; Martin, Stephanie; Broda, Lisa; Poudrier, Jennifer
• Is Part Of: Journal of interpersonal violence. Volume 35:Issue 23/24(2020)
• Page Start: 5390
• Page End: 5413
• Publication Date: 2020-12
• Subjects: intimate partner violence -- hegemonic masculinities -- qualitative research -- male victimization -- women's violence; Violence -- Periodicals; Sex crimes -- Periodicals; Violence -- Périodiques; Crimes sexuels -- Périodiques; 364.15
• DOI: 10.1177/0886260517719905
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0886-2605

Abstract

There is a substantive body of research focusing on women's experiences of intimate partner violence (IPV), but a lack of qualitative studies focusing on men's experiences as victims of IPV. This article addresses this gap in the literature by paying particular attention to hegemonic masculinities and men's perceptions of IPV. Men ( N = 9) participated in in-depth interviews. Interview data were rigorously subjected to thematic analysis, which revealed five key themes in the men's narratives: fear of IPV, maintaining power and control, victimization as a forbidden narrative, critical understanding of IPV, and breaking the silence. Although the men share similar stories of victimization as women, the way this is influenced by their gendered histories is different. While some men reveal a willingness to disclose their victimization and share similar fear to women victims, others reframe their victim status in a way that sustains their own power and control. The men also draw attention to the contextual realities that frame abuse, including histories of violence against the women who used violence and the realities of communities suffering intergenerational affects of colonized histories. The findings reinforce the importance of in-depth qualitative work toward revealing the context of violence, understanding the impact of fear, victimization, and power/control on men's mental health as well as the outcome of legal and support services and lack thereof. A critical discussion regarding the gendered context of violence, power within relationships, and addressing men's need for support without redefining victimization or taking away from policies and support for women's ongoing victimization concludes the work.