Catching feelings: Exploring commitment (un)readiness in emerging adulthood. (January 2020)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: LeFebvre, Leah E.; Carmack, Heather J.
• Is Part Of: Journal of social and personal relationships. Volume 37:Number 1(2020)
• Page Start: 143
• Page End: 162
• Publication Date: 2020-01
• Subjects: Catching feelings -- commitment readiness -- emerging adults -- relational receptivity theory -- Stages of Change Model; Interpersonal relations -- Periodicals; Social interaction -- Periodicals; 302.05
• DOI: 10.1177/0265407519857472
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0265-4075

Abstract

This exploratory study investigates how emerging adults (EAs) experience catching feelings. Applying the Stages of Change Model and Relational Receptivity Theory, this study investigates how EAs understand the cognitive and behavior changes leading up to commitment and how they process precontemplation surrounding catching feelings. Using focus group interviews, collegiate EAs ( N = 17) define catching feelings as the unintentional, unexpected, and surprisingly desirable development of romantic feelings for another person (commonly beginning face-to-face) . When confronted with catching feelings, EAs must delineate their preconditions for catching feelings and work through decision-making processes. Implications for relationship readiness, communication, and commitment are discussed.