Leaving violent men: A study of women's experiences of separation in Victoria, Australia. Issue 3 (September 2018)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Bruton, Crystal; Tyson, Danielle
• Is Part Of: Australian & New Zealand journal of criminology. Volume 51:Issue 3(2018:Sep.)
• Page Start: 339
• Page End: 354
• Publication Date: 2018-09
• Subjects: Agency -- coercive control -- domestic violence -- separation -- women; Criminology -- Australia -- Periodicals; Criminology -- New Zealand -- Periodicals; Criminology -- Periodicals; Criminal justice, Administration of -- Australia -- Periodicals; Criminal justice, Administration of -- New Zealand -- Periodicals; Criminal justice, Administration of -- Periodicals; 364.099
• DOI: 10.1177/0004865817746711
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0004-8658

Abstract

Despite decades of feminist efforts to educate the community about, and improve responses to, domestic violence, public attitudes towards domestic violence continue to misunderstand women's experiences of violence. Underlying such responses is the stock standard question, 'Why doesn't she leave?' This question points to a lack of understanding about the impacts and threat of violence from an abusive partner on women's decisions to leave the relationship. Moreover, it places sole responsibility for ending the relationship squarely upon women, assuming women are presented with numerous opportunities to leave a violent relationship and erroneously assumes the violence will cease once they do leave. This study explores women's experiences of separating from an abusive, male partner through women's narratives (n = 12) in Victoria, Australia. Findings reveal that fear was a complex influencing factor impacting upon women's decision-making throughout the leaving process. The findings show that women seek to exercise agency within the context of their abusers' coercively controlling tactics by strategically attempting to manage the constraints placed on their decision-making and partner's repeated attempts to reassert dominance and control.