An Italian-American view of grief: connection, transformation and resilience. (3rd July 2018)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: DiCello, Donna; Pidano, Anne; Mangione, Lorraine
• Is Part Of: Mortality. Volume 23:Number 3(2018)
• Page Start: 261
• Page End: 278
• Publication Date: 2018-07-03
• Subjects: Grief -- mourning -- Italian-American culture -- continued bonds -- resilience and relationship; Thanatology -- Periodicals; Mortality -- Periodicals; Bereavement -- Periodicals; Undertakers and undertaking -- Periodicals; 304.64
• DOI: 10.1080/13576275.2017.1339675
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 1357-6275

Abstract

Abstract: Current theories regarding grief and mourning often acknowledge continued connection and reworking of the relationship to the lost person rather than relinquishing ties and bonds, and acknowledge the importance of culture in grief and mourning. Although there is little research regarding Italian-Americans and grieving, these ideas fit well with the description described by researchers as 'Italians tend to keep their dead with them'. This paper explores Italian-American responses to the loss of a loved one. It comprises a brief summary of relevant literature around grieving, followed by an overview of themes from Italian traditions and culture that inform our thinking about Italian-Americans and grief. The authors, as participants in both the culture and the experience of grief, briefly situate themselves vis-à-vis these experiences. Three segments then illustrate our concepts of continued bonds and reworking relationships: a pilot study of Italian-Americans' experiences of loss and grieving over time, a normative case study of one woman's creative, ongoing response to major loss, and the importance of objects after loss from a research project of daughters who have lost their dads. Conclusions focus on the importance and complexity of mourning; the centrality of relationship; the use of symbol, ritual and meaning-making; and development of resiliency, for Italian-Americans and perhaps other groups.