Emotionships: Examining People's Emotion-Regulation Relationships and Their Consequences for Well-Being. (May 2015)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Cheung, Elaine O.; Gardner, Wendi L.; Anderson, Jason F.
• Is Part Of: Social psychological & personality science. Volume 6:Number 4(2015:May.)
• Page Start: 407
• Page End: 414
• Publication Date: 2015-05
• Subjects: emotion regulation -- well-being -- relationships -- emotions -- social networks; Personality -- Periodicals; Social psychology -- Periodicals; Electronic journals; 155.2
• DOI: 10.1177/1948550614564223
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 1948-5506

Abstract

Is it better to have a few relationships that can fulfill all our emotion-regulation needs or to have a more diverse relationship portfolio, in which different individuals serve distinct emotion-regulation needs? The present research examined how people distribute their emotion-regulation needs across different emotion-specific regulation relationships (emotionships) and their consequences for well-being. Study 1 demonstrated the existence of emotionships by showing that individuals can name discrete relationships that they consider effective at regulating specific emotions (e.g., I turn to my sister to cheer me up when I'm sad) and that the accessibility and value of these relationships change as a function of manipulated emotional states. Studies 2a and 2b revealed that individuals who diversified their emotion-regulation needs across multiple specialized relationships (e.g., having distinct relationships for cheering up sadness vs. soothing anxiety) showed higher well-being than those with similar numbers of close relationships, but who concentrated their emotion-regulation needs in fewer, less specialized relationships.