Behind the Myth of the Matriarch and the Flagbearer: How Korean and Chinese American Sons and Daughters Negotiate Gender, Family, and Emotions1. Issue 1 (6th October 2016)

• Record Type: Journal Article
• Authors: Chung, Angie Y.
• Is Part Of: Sociological forum. Volume 32:Issue 1(2017)
• Page Start: 28
• Page End: 49
• Publication Date: 2016-10-06
• Subjects: Asian American children -- emotion work -- family culture -- gender roles -- generation gap -- immigrant families; Sociology -- Periodicals; 301
• DOI: 10.1111/socf.12316
• Languages: English
• ISSNs: 0884-8971

Abstract

Abstract : While more studies are exploring the ways in which gender structures the family experiences of American‐born children of immigrants, there is less attention to how gender shapes later views on ethnicity and culture. Based on interviews with Korean, Chinese, and Taiwanese Americans in the New York–New Jersey metropolitan area, this article examines the different ways second‐generation children learn, interpret, and pass on the cultural values and family traditions in their adulthood. Because their family roles center on their roles as leaders and carriers of the family name through male heirs, sons—especially oldest sons—can fulfill their filial obligations through relatively orthodox and nonengaging cultural practices that although restrictive, do not threaten their personal goals and privileged status. However, daughters must negotiate more emotionally burdensome expectations and responsibilities by preserving family honor, acting as family caretakers, and juggling multiple responsibilities; thus, they tend to re‐create more subtle, self‐empowering, and emotionally engaging ways of interpreting and preserving their parents' expectations on family culture. I argue that the gendered ways daughters and sons are taught to practice cultural values and protect family honor has significant bearing on their later views on ethnicity and culture but in complex ways that transcend the generational divide.