Draw on your relationships. (2018)

• Record Type: Book
• Authors: Sunderland, Margot
• Other Names: Armstrong, Nicky illustrator.
• Contents: INTRODUCTION • How to use this book • Why use drawings and images to speak about feelings? • How to work safely • Key rules and guidelines in helping someone to speak about feelings • About sandplay and how to use it ; YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIPS • You, your relationships, your life; • Encouragers and discouragers in my life (past and present); • People in your life, as gardens; • The cocktail party; • Your relationships as walls, bridges, comfortable sofas & take off; • Museum of too alone; • My childhood memories: People as places; • Relationship riches DEAD, DEPRIVING, DRAINING, DISAPPOINTING RELATIONSHIPS; • My Relationship: Take off or stuck on the runway?; • To leave or to stay?; • The ‘nothing much happening’ times; • A relationship that’s holding me back; • People who energise. People who drain; • Too many takers and not enough givers; • Am I expecting too much from her/him?; • Disappointing relationship or futile quest for perfect mate? LIFE-CHANGING RELATIONSHIPS; • People you’ve been flying with; • Flying together as a group; • Collecting moments, not things; • Oh, how we laugh!; • Knights (posing as people) LOVE HURTS; • Museum of hurt; • When I can’t reach you; • Life after losing a person or their love; • The end of a relationship. What now?; • Loving someone who isn’t good at loving; • Do I matter to you?; • No one listens / too unhelped; • Rejected / not wanted / uninvited / redundant; • On the outside of the group DAMAGING AND DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS; • Power over / power under / power with; • Toxic shame; • Managing conflict badly; • Controlled; • Emotional baggage; • Hidden resentments; • So many difficult/annoying people in my life • Anger fuelled by pain from the past RELATIONSHIPS AND FEAR • Fear of intimacy; • Withdrawal, avoidance and leaving; • Fear of closeness and fear of distance; • Fear of being in groups; • Fear of being myself in case I am too much; • Without a voice; • Mistrust TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES TO IMPROVE AND REPAIR RELATIONSHIPS • The art of relationship (for one person) • The ‘when you…I feel’ exercise (for two people) • The ‘unfinished sentence’ exercise (for two people) • The 'like / don’t like it’ game (for two people) • The empathy game (for two people) • Our best and worst times (for two people) • Theories of motivation (for two people) • Paper conversations
• Edition: 2nd edition
• Publisher Details: London : Routledge
• Publication Date: 2018
• Extent: 1 online resource, illustrations (black and white)
• Subjects: 158.2; Interpersonal relations; Client-centered psychotherapy
• Languages: English
• ISBNs: 9781351629232; 9781351629225; 9781351629218; 9781315114958
• Related ISBNs: 9781138070707
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