Counseling gems : thoughts for the practitioner /: thoughts for the practitioner. (2015)

• Record Type: Book
• Further Information: Note: James P. Carnevale.
• Authors: Carnevale, James P, 1931-
• Contents: Cover; Title; Copyright; INTRODUCTION; Contents; SECTION I COUNSELING PHILOSOPHY; Points of View; 1. Counseling is helping people ...; 2. You must have filters...; 3. The reason persons are not solving their life problems is...; 4. The power of positive thinking only works for those people who are already happy.; 5. Real clients are seldom easy clients with whom to work.; 6. Clients are better at being clients than...; 7. A 5 degree or 10 degree shift in the situation can...; 8. All behavior has meaning and purpose...; 9. Habits become habits because... 10. Defense mechanisms are chosen and maintained because...11. No all/nothtngs exist...; 12. Remember that in counseling the problem is...; 13. Counseling is the TRUTH BUSINESS...; 14. Clients are seldom helpless.; 15. When a client agrees wtth you, ..; 16. People are not weak-...; 17. However you are feeling about the client or are responding to the client is probably what the client intended.; 18. A counseling relationship has several stages.; 19. Counselors lose more clients by...; SECTION II GOALS AND BOUNDARIES OF COUNSELING 20. The counseling relationship has a unique set of parameters which...21. All problems In counseling are relationship problems. Period!; 22. All relationship problems are related to either power or intimacy.; 23. The client's problem is rarely the real problem.; 24. Mythology-the basis of it all.; 25. New insight and new language give the client...; 26. The one who gives In gets even.; 27. Value-free counseling-it doesn't exist!; 28. Counseling is a process in which we try to avoid the win/lose part of living; 29. Never let a client ""IT"" on you.; SECTION III CLIENTS' REASONS FOR COUNSELING 30. For many people, seeing a counselor is...31. Sense of failure...; 32. Clients usually hope you can help...; '33. In their hearts they know they're not to blame.; 34. The client secretly hopes that...; SECTION IV COUNSELOR'S ROLE; 35. One can do only what he thinks is the right thing to do...; 36. Responsibility: Creating one's life through choices...; 37. To be intimate means to be vulnerable-...; 38. You must train your client to be your client.; 39. I hold the counselor 75 to 80 percent responsible for...; 40. The counselor, not the client, is in control of the interview-... 41. Give your clients hope. They need it.42. If clients have made such a mess of things, how can they ever depend on themselves again.; 43. Never contribute to the delinquency of your client.; 44. You must be willing to be responsible for making the client feel bad.; 45. Clients are excellent at what they are doing wrong.; 46. Sincerity does not mean truth.; 47. You cannot not communicate; 48. Accepting one's humanness.; 49. The superego-...; 50. Anger, fear, and sadness (or grief) are always that which the client is trying to avoid.; 51. If you have to explain what counseling is...
• Publisher Details: Abingdon, Oxon : Routledge
• Publication Date: 2015
• Extent: 1 online resource, illustrations
• Subjects: 158/.3; Counseling; PSYCHOLOGY / Applied Psychology; SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / General; SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Happiness; SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Success; Counseling; Electronic books; Electronic books; Electronic books
• Languages: English
• ISBNs: 9781317757245; 1317757246; 9781315798677; 1315798670
• Related ISBNs: 9780915202881
• Notes: Note: Online resource; title from PDF title page (EBSCO, viewed January 18, 2016).
• Access Rights: Legal Deposit; Only available on premises controlled by the deposit library and to one user at any one time; The Legal Deposit Libraries (Non-Print Works) Regulations (UK).
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